I was surprised to receive no reason for the change of
plans. I would have expected that he would provide an excuse or reason for the
change of plans. This was a little concerning as he was not sharing his plans
with me. I got the sense that he was pulling away. This was probably a good
thing, as I was going to have a chat with him when we next caught up to ask
whether he was interested or whether he was just going with the flow. It seemed
like we were more mates than dating…
Me and my fuck buddy caught up Monday night for True Blood
night, but we were both too interested in talking and fell asleep in each
other’s arms as opposed to watching the show. I felt more of a connection with
my fuck buddy than I did with Chefette. So I messaged Chefette and gave a very plausible excuse for not catching up
that night and asked if he was free later in the week. I also tried to give him
a call after work to apologise and see how he was going. It is now Saturday and
have not received one message, one bit of communication from Chefette.
I had given him all the options, he was a little cash
strapped so I said just give me a ring and I would give him a call back. I also
gave him my facebook and MSN details. There was literally no excuse to not
communicate.
So this morning, I have texted him and stated “in the
interests of closure… It was nice to meet him and wished him all the best for
the future.” I don’t expect to receive a reply, it seems like he is avoidant in
that he wants to avoid confrontations or discussions. So that’s the final
chapter for Chefette.
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